The journey from there to here

One of history's widely regarded greatest blunders was Neville Chamberlain's policy of appeasement to Hitler's Germany prior to World War 2. He essentially compromised Germany into a position where, had America acted too late, all of Europe could have fallen under the iron fist of the Third Reich.

While it exists on a different level, our encounter with CPS is no different. The actions being taken by CPS are wrong, and our standing upn against them is right. We are standing up against them not only for ourselves, but for every family who has been a victim of CPS injustice.

I have heard a LOT of criticism from certain quarters, asking that I surrender my Constitutional rights simply to appease CPS. I cannot, and WILL NOT do this. It's much bigger than just allowing a caseworker into my home.

Because of our recent move from near homelessness, there's a lot of furniture in our home left to buy. This means that, of necessity, clothing is piled (neatly) in various areas of the house. The caseworker could take one look at the piles and notate "piles of dirty laundry left out in the house" (actual portions of allegations from various CPS reports).

Our children are snackers and sometimes leave their dirty dishes in various places. Unless we give the place the white glove treatment, which is damn difficult when you have kids in tow, the CPS worker can notate "dirty dishes left scattered through the house".

God forbid my wife forget to pick up a dirty diaper or the dog have an accident in the house. And unmade beds? Another common CPS notation.

Now let's get to the child interviewing part. Let's say this caseworker is vehemently opposed to ALL sorts of spanking. They ask, during the interview, "does your dad ever hit you", the kid responds "yes", and BINGO! There's "imminent danger", and the children are gone. We very RARELY spank our children, but we cannot honestly say we've never done so.

I could go on and on, citing REAL cases where CPS has done these sorts of things, but, in fact, I HAVE gone on and on and my comments were largely ignored, despite the fact that I pretty heavily supported my assertions.

For you Republicans out there who still don't understand why I don't give CPS carte blanche to go through my house, let me ask why you don't believe in gun registration. Innocent people have nothing to hide, right?

The fact is, the Constitution STILL stands behind me, no matter what CPS says. And if I have to prepare my own briefs and appeal my case to every level of appellate court, I will do it. Chances are, I won't have to get past the Circuit Court of Appeals.

If they show up at my door with a search warrant, I will let them in but stipulate that they are ONLY allowed to search within the confines of the warrant...NOTHING MORE. I DO have that RIGHT, after all.

The fact is, if CPS wants my children, they are going to get them. They are, unfortunately, under a quota system in the state of Texas right now. Whether they get them permanently or temporarily may well depend on the actions I take here and now.

I have spoken with several lawyers. EVERY one of them has advised me that I am WELL within my LEGAL rights to refuse them entrance without a warrant. And that is what I will continue to do.


Comments
on Oct 01, 2005
"piles of dirty laundry left out in the house"


I've got two or three loads of laundry folded and stacked on the washer and dryer. A whole corner of my bedroom has stacked and folded laundry, most of which I'm still in the process of separating to give outgrown stuff to charity.

The laundry hamper on the stairs landing is at maximum capacity.

I would think most families with children, even when they have tons of closets and dressers, could claim a similar situation at one time or another.

"dirty dishes left scattered through the house".


In my sink are cereal bowls, a mixing bowl, beaters, measuring cups, and a baking sheet. All dirty. There's a cereal bowl on the dining room table and a dirty cup on the coffee table.

We have a dishwasher, so I see no reason to rush into washing stuff. Sure, I could put every dish in the dishwasher after it's used, but I'd rather sit stuff in the sink and wait for a full load.

It might be lazy of me, but it certainly doesn't endanger my children in any way.

Kids carry their snacks and dishes all over the house, even when they know they're supposed to keep them at the dining room table. What family doesn't have a stray dish or cup sitting dirty somewhere at one time or another?

And unmade beds?


My bed is only made when I want to impress my husband. The kids' beds are only made when we have company. I'm not a big believer in making beds. Washing sheets and pillow cases? Sure. But making the beds? Why? They're just going to get messed up again. My kids play in their bed during the day sometimes. It won't stay made. What's the point?

If these are things that CPS can use as ammunition, I completely understand your putting up resistance. To me, laundry is proof that the kids have clothes. Dirty dishes proves that they're eating. Unmade beds mean they have beds.

This is ridiculous.
on Oct 01, 2005

Yes, it is VERY ridiculous. And it is why we're standing our ground.

I intend to point out to the case worker, and her supervisor the interesting fact that the report came out two weeks TO THE DAY after we were verbally threatened with being run out of town for trying to take in Katrina refugees. That might help underscore the fac that this is a malicious, spurious complaint made by people who've learned to use the CPS anonymous reporting system as a hammer to harass and intimidate people just because they don't like them.

 

on Oct 01, 2005

Hey, I've been on the recieving end too.  People don't like you, so the first thing they do is call DFS on you. 

Stand your ground, Gid.  If you need any help, you know where I am.

on Oct 02, 2005
the report came out two weeks TO THE DAY after we were verbally threatened with being run out of town for trying to take in Katrina refugees.


they must be confusing neville chamberlain with the neville brothers?

is it possible for you to file a plea asking for a judge to evaluate the source of the complaint before any further action is taken?
on Oct 02, 2005

is it possible for you to file a plea asking for a judge to evaluate the source of the complaint before any further action is taken?

No, CPS is mandated to investigate every (anonymous) complaint, no matter how spurious. This is one primary reason why CPS is called in 60-80% of all divorce cases in America; it's a cheap and easy way to harass someone without any fear of reprisal.

And, for the record, there IS no judge in our case. NO court orders have been issued. CPS usually is allowed to operate above the law. Another reason for my opposition.

on Oct 02, 2005
Being a second class citizen, I know exactly what you talk about.  Working for DSS, I know the QUota system.  There is nothing paranoid about this.  It is just reality.