The journey from there to here
Published on September 27, 2005 By Gideon MacLeish In Current Events

Recently, much has been said about public education, by public school educators. While I have my own personal opinions of many of the public school educators I have encountered (but will withhold them here, as it's not germaine to the topic), my general view towards public education in America is that it is still more good than bad and we owe much to public school educators in this country. After all, as I frequently point out, I, as a homeschooling father, would not have had the confidence or the ability to educate my children were it not for the contributions of certain public school educators in my life. To disparage public education as a whole would be to disparage them and all they have done over the years.

That being said, I am less than thrilled with those who feel that, because we homeschool our children, we are not "educators". We most certainly ARE, as are many parents who DON'T homeschool their children, but still provide their children with a wealth of educational opportunities that the public school districts could never provide, due to time, budgetary, and logistical constraints.

We are the ones who taught them their first words.

We are the ones who toilet trained them.

We taught them to walk, taught them manners, taught them proper social interaction, taught them to tie their shoes. All of that before they were even "of age" for the public school system. In fact, had we not taught them that much, the jobs of "professional" educators would be much harder.

As homeschoolers, we took it on from there. We have to teach our children not only the basic educational components, but to stand firm against the extreme prejudice they face from a largely uninformed public. Our job not only consists of educating our children, but of educating neighbors, librarians, museum curators, and other individuals in the community who do not understand much about homeschooling. Our job consists of being ambassadors as well, as a higher standard of educational excellence and of community is EXPECTED of my children (any negative behavior or educational handicap is immediately attributed to their being homeschooled).

Our job knows no summers, no winter holidays, no inservice days. Every day is a school day, the only thing that varies according to the season is the level of formality. Every moment is a teaching moment, and we instill the values of a lifetime of learning to children we hope will pass those same values onto their children.

In my case, I also serve as a volunteer firefighter. Our chief once told us that volunteers were more valuable than professionals because professionals did it because it was a job, volunteers did it because it was a desire. Their hearts were in it more. I would also say that's true of many homeschool teachers.

On one of our bookshelves sits a knicknack my oldest wanted to get for my wife when she was about 5. She wanted it, mainly because it was cute, I wanted it because it gave my wife recognition for a role society refuses to recognize. The knicknack is a bear holding a slate that reads "#1 Teacher".

 


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on Sep 27, 2005
Got one thing to say, Gideon!

AMEN!!!!

There's also the fact that, according to the Commonwealth of Virginia, my wife and I are both recognized educators. FORMALLY recognized as educators, that is. With all responsibilities that entails (including the legal responsibility to report suspected abuse in children around us, much as I disagree with that).

We even had someone ask us, outright, at the State Fair this past Friday, if we homschooled our children. Why did he ask that? Because they were extremely polite and well behaved.

Keep up the good work, Gideon!
on Sep 27, 2005
We even had someone ask us, outright, at the State Fair this past Friday, if we homschooled our children. Why did he ask that? Because they were extremely polite and well behaved.


As a longtime homeschooler, I can ALWAYS identify homeschooling families in ANY group, because of their polite nature and the obvious familial closeness (while homeschooled children fight the same as any kids, they realize that public places are NOT the place for such conflicts).
on Sep 27, 2005
yep gid, I totally agree, parents are the first "teachers"
on Sep 27, 2005
Thank you for stating that those of us who don't homeschool are still educators too. You are the first home school teacher that I have come across who hasn't been judmental of my sending my children to public schools, I have met many who think their way is the best which is great but that also think it is the only way. So thanks! You touched on the basics that we all teach our kids but if you don't mind I would like to add one point. With all the projects and homework that our kids have out of school hours that we guide them on we are indeed educators. We have thought about the home school option but thus far we have been fortunate enough to be in great school districts.
on Sep 27, 2005
because of their polite nature and the obvious familial closeness


I agree, have seen the same but I have seen that in a lot of military families too!
on Sep 27, 2005

With all the projects and homework that our kids have out of school hours that we guide them on we are indeed educators.

I agree, that's why I included this sentence:

"We most certainly ARE, as are many parents who DON'T homeschool their children, but still provide their children with a wealth of educational opportunities that the public school districts could never provide, due to time, budgetary, and logistical constraints. "

The simple fact is, the public school system could not do as well as it does without the involvement of many of the parents in their kids' education; in fact, I personally believe the key difference between success and failure of ANY schooling option is parental involvement. If the parents aren't involved, success is rare.

I agree, have seen the same but I have seen that in a lot of military families too!

Part of my formative years were in a military family, and I've always been around them, but I guess I didn't see it as much. I wonder if part of the difference is that we're actively involved in war, and there's a greater appreciation for the families, as many military families now know someone or several someones who didn't make it home.

Good points, and thanks for the replies!

on Sep 27, 2005
It sounds like you are a very dedicated father, and all power to you for homeschool educating.

I honestly think it's a waste of time to pit homeschool and public educators against one another. Public and homeschool education both have their pros and cons. One is Not better than the other. I think the important thing is that we both have the same goal in mind, and that is to give our children the best education possible. We should be supportive of each other instead of criticizing, blaming, one-upping and such. --Rose, public educator
on Sep 27, 2005
Exactly how does the home schooling work? I can tell you that I consider myself a fairly intelligent man, but I could not begin to teach Trigonometry to my children as well as many other subjects that are now distant memories.

How does one teach something that they are not the masters of themselves? I thought that's why we had teachers who specialized in individual subjects.

I agree with the sentiments, and I have heard great things about home schooling, but I never have figured out how one teaches something that they no nothing of. Must you master the subjects fully yourself before becoming the teacher?
on Sep 27, 2005
Ug, this is making me think of my second grade teacher who used to assign so much work that I would literally spend between 3 and 5 hours every night doing it. I doubt I would have gotten it done if not for my mother sitting at the table with me, or at the most in the next room while I worked on it. If not for that attention, I'd have probably been off doing one of the million other things that was more appealing.

If not for that, I'd have probably never managed in school, as I am too easily distracted. Yay-D-D
on Sep 27, 2005
Gideon: Excellent article.

I have many reasons why I prefer to send my children to public school, but I have the greatest respect and admiration for families who choose to home school their children. It takes a lot of dedication and discipline, and is not something to be taken lightly. (Additionally, the parent who chooses to be the primary "teaching parent" is often responsible for serving as a professional educator for the school age children, while doing double duty as mommy (or daddy) for the little ones.)

A dear friend of mine, whom I graduated high school with (haha, actually I attended college with him at both CC and WTAMU, before he went on to TT, as well), was home schooled up until the last few years of high school. He was naturally bright, but because of his mother's dedication to the task of homeschooling, was also far ahead of the classes he joined. He's done very well for himself, and has a fulfilling and well-paying career in a field he is passionate about.

He has much to thank his mother for, hehe.

Children are constantly learning, whether we are intentionally teaching them or not. Life is a classroom for them, and some of the most valuable lessons they learn take place in the home. A public school educator loses a key ally when he or she alienates the parents.

I've had predominantly great experiences with the public schools my children have attended, and I have tremendous respect and gratitude for those who choose to teach our nation's children.

Yay for teachers! Yay for the ones who stay up late at night plotting how to work their classroom's fascination with Boa Constrictors into the math lesson! Yay for the ones who change diapers while teaching capitalization!
on Sep 27, 2005
I guess by your definition, I am a teacher as well.  We Home schooled my oldest son one year due to the local school system shafting him (she taught him everything but Math, I took care of that one).  What I was shocked to realize was how little the kids actually learn each day!  By the end of his 6th grade (the year of Home Schooling), he was already ready for Geometry! (He was a smart kid anyway).
on Sep 27, 2005

How does one teach something that they are not the masters of themselves? I thought that's why we had teachers who specialized in individual subjects.

Actually, only certain districts require their teachers to be specialized in individual subjects. That's one thing many folks would be surprised to learn.

But, to answer your question, there are a few ways. Some parents choose to use prepackaged curriculum from various curriculum providers. There are options to fit nearly every learning or teaching style. Some of the courses are basically correspondence courses, graded by teachers elsewhere.

Another option is to learn with the student. While this requires a great deal more time or effort, it is ultimately more rewarding as it shows by example the concept of "lifetime" learning (this is the option we use; we refer to it as "family schooling", and it helps motivate our children to learning when they are dealing with subjects they see as pointless).

Still another option is to utilize the resources of support groups, and to help each other on difficult subjects, with a parent with greater math skill teaching the math courses, one with greater science ability teaching science, and so forth. You may want to be careful how you structure this option, though, as the laws of different states vary.

There are, of course, other options, but these are by far the most common. I have seen successes and failures from all of these choices, and don't endorse one over another, as an individual family's needs and abilities will vary.

Hope this answers a few questions.

on Sep 27, 2005
Thanks Gideon, that helped a lot. Definitely inspires me to look into it. Good luck to you and your kids with it.
on Sep 27, 2005
"That being said, I am less than thrilled with those who feel that, because we homeschool our children, we are not "educators". We most certainly ARE, as are many parents who DON'T homeschool their children, but still provide their children with a wealth of educational opportunities that the public school districts could never provide, due to time, budgetary, and logistical constraints.

We are the ones who taught them their first words.

We are the ones who toilet trained them.

We taught them to walk, taught them manners, taught them proper social interaction, taught them to tie their shoes. All of that before they were even "of age" for the public school system. In fact, had we not taught them that much, the jobs of "professional" educators would be much harder."


Very well said Gid! I applaud you and others who choose to homeschool their children. It's a choice that I see nothing wrong with. It's your choice and it's obviously working out for you and your children.

Parents are certainly the first teachers and are educators in every sense of the word!

on Sep 27, 2005
Dr. Guy,

That's precisely how my wife and I handle it. She does the creative stuff (English, handwriting, art, music) and the social sciences/studies type stuff. I, in turn, do the math and science. We cover everything that the VA legislature has decided is necessary to pass the SOL. And my oldest has to take it this year ...

As for curriculum ... we use a mixture of stuff - different text books and prewritten curriculum, homebrew curriculum (to adjust the teachings so that we cover stuff that the kids like) and materials available on the internet. You wouldn't believe the amount of material (work sheets, coloring pages, organization type materials, etc.) that are available over the internet.

Also, like Gideon stated above, we're active in two different support groups. One, we're just members. The others ... well, let's see... I opened my mouth when I shouldn't have, so we lead that one.

I have many reasons why I prefer to send my children to public school, but I have the greatest respect and admiration for families who choose to home school their children. It takes a lot of dedication and discipline, and is not something to be taken lightly. (Additionally, the parent who chooses to be the primary "teaching parent" is often responsible for serving as a professional educator for the school age children, while doing double duty as mommy (or daddy) for the little ones.)
-- TexasWahine

Thank you for stating that those of us who don't homeschool are still educators too. You are the first home school teacher that I have come across who hasn't been judmental of my sending my children to public schools, I have met many who think their way is the best which is great but that also think it is the only way. So thanks! You touched on the basics that we all teach our kids but if you don't mind I would like to add one point. With all the projects and homework that our kids have out of school hours that we guide them on we are indeed educators. We have thought about the home school option but thus far we have been fortunate enough to be in great school districts.
-- InfantryWife


While we actively homeschool, and advocate for it, we realize that homeschooling is not for everyone. Some, like TW have a valid reasons for placing their child in public schools. That's great!!! And you remain active in your kids education, regardless.

I've seen too many homeschool families that are doing it for the wrong reasons. One lady that I'm familiar with was homeschooling because she needed someone at home (her oldest two daughters) to babysit the younger kids. She wanted to do what she felt like doing, and nothing was going to stop her. It's a shame when your (then) 8 year old son is reading books to a 12 year old, because the 12 year old can't read. Another family, the mother just doesn't do anything. It wasn't until this past year that her 11 year old daughter could count past 10.

As the leader for one of the support groups, I keep getting asked, "Do you think I should homeschool my kid(s)?" My answer is usually, "It depends. Why do you think you want/need to homeschool you child(ren)?" Depending on the answer, I will ask other questions.

Homeschooling takes a level of dedication, organization (usually), compassion, and multiple personalities. You need all of the traits that people want to see in a teacher, plus the caring compassion of the parent. But, most of all, there needs to be a sincere desire to learn. Because, trust me. When you homeschool, regardless of the method/curriculum used, you will learn almost as much as they do.
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