The journey from there to here

While I am a homeschooling parent, I defer a lot of respect to quality teachers. In fact, being a product of the public school system myself, I doubt I would have the ability or confidence to effectively educate my children.

While teachers shouldn't have to live their lives in a bubble, there's a general consensus that they constitute role models. As well they should; the time they spend with their students during formative years is substantial, and their influence often colors the world of their charges.

This is why it is so appalling, then, when a teacher violates the trust of their student and engages in sexual activity with the student.

It's also why some people are so appalled and dismayed at the actions of a certain blogger. While I didn't see the inhalant abuse article, I have seen a number of poorly written, reactive responses that have shown his general inability to control his temper. That type of reaction indicates an emotional instability that would be a poor fit for a classroom where a teacher should be in control.

To compare the actions of a teacher with the actions of a woman on disability who has never held herself to be a role model, then, is an unreasonable comparison. LW has been consistently held to answer for her actions, and she has done so with a certain grace. Myrr goes through cycles of throwing a fit,getting exiled, apologizing then being brought back. The only person I have seen reprimanded more often on this site is Sir Peter Maxwell, who is permanently banned, while Myrr will almost certainly talk his way back into the admins' good graces and be reinstated.

This isn't meant to be an attack,as I highly respect all parties involved. But I would challenge you, myrr, to seriously examine what it means to be a role model for your students and in the community. You have the intelligence to be a great teacher; of that there is no doubt. Now it's time to show you have the wisdom to match.


Comments
on Apr 26, 2005

It may be unfair to hold teachers to a standard we do not demand of other professionals, but for the very reason you state, we do.  And when those teachers show a decided lack of professionalism, it is our right, and our duty to call them to task over it.

Whether fair or not, they spend more time with our children than we do each day, and we would demand no less of ourselves in our children's presence than we do of teachers.  If that is too high a standard for them to meet, there is always another occupation awaiting them.

on Apr 27, 2005

If I am going to allow someone to watch my children, I have very high standards for that person. Professional demeanor is only part of it.

I don't give a rat's patoot if he's the most lecherous individual in town; as long as he confines that activity to his OWN time! He can huff his brains out, but DON'T do it in front of my students, or encourage my students to do it.

While a teacher acting thusly may seem a tad hypocritical, it's not that at all. You are supposed to at least SUPPORT my values if you are to have a hand at all in the upbringing of my children.

Small wonder, then, that I don't give you that hand.