The journey from there to here
Published on April 4, 2005 By Gideon MacLeish In Blogging

Well, one of the latest flame wars is heating up, and I have to wonder, why bother?

I've been involved in a couple of back and forths with individuals, but our arguments usually centered around our areas of disagreements, not ridiculously juvenile attacks like "You're an idiot!", or other such random name calling.

I find it hard to believe that anyone has ever made it to adulthood without enduring some level of name calling somewhere in their past. While such name calling isn't usually appropriate, it is pretty standard human nature. And while it hurts, it only hurts as much as you let it.

The only people on here whose insults even phase me are individuals whose views and ideas I generally respect. Put simply, if I don't respect you, your opinion means zilch to me. So call me what you will; I consider the source.

I'd like to encourage a few others to do the same. It's a shame to see an otherwise fine thread hijacked by puerile name calling.


Comments
on Apr 04, 2005
I always say that too. Sticks and stones can break my bones but words can never hurt me! They can't but boy if you let them, they hurt like crazy!

"if I don't respect you, your opinion means zilch to me.."

This is good to remember and a good motto to live by because people are going to have their opinions and nothing you can do about that.
on Apr 04, 2005

I always say that too. Sticks and stones can break my bones but words can never hurt me! They can't but boy if you let them, they hurt like crazy!

Actually, they are meant, and often do, push buttons.  They really dont hurt per se (unless true and you are ashamed of them), but they do enrage the senses so to speak.

As such, I do get button pushed.  But I dont follow the troll around.  I let it die where it started.

on Apr 04, 2005
will flame for food......
on Apr 04, 2005
Sticks and stones will break your bones, but words (and the fact that the cowards don't have to face you personally) are why you whack someone in the first place.........

I personally recommend that the first place be right between the eyes.....

(tosses moderateman a packet of oreos)
on Apr 04, 2005
will flame for food......


How bout a tit shot?


Is this offer good to all comers? I'll take that.
on Apr 04, 2005
Is this offer good to all comers? I'll take that.


Wanna race? I got about a 1000 mile head start!

just dont let my wife read this!

{rimshot}
on Apr 04, 2005
Is this offer good to all comers? I'll take that.


Wanna race? I got about a 1000 mile head start!

just dont let my wife read this!


Mine either.
on Apr 04, 2005
6 by Spc Nobody Special
Monday, April 04, 2005


Sticks and stones will break your bones, but words (and the fact that the cowards don't have to face you personally) are why you whack someone in the first place.........

I personally recommend that the first place be right between the eyes.....

(tosses moderateman a packet of oreos)


I have to agree, I will not start a flame war, BUT will finish one. its silly, but I am too immature to just let it go.
on Apr 04, 2005
#5 by little_whip
Monday, April 04, 2005


will flame for food......


How bout a tit shot?


I ain't got titties, just well developed chest muscles
on Apr 04, 2005
heh, guys and tits...

Anyway, just wanted to say, that yeah, depending on WHO says them, words can sometimes hurt.

But in the cases of JU fights, it gets ridiculous too often.