The journey from there to here
Published on September 18, 2004 By Gideon MacLeish In Politics
12 states this year have amendments before their voters to ban same sex marriage in their quest to legislate morality within their borders. Our reigning president has also championed such legislation on the federal level.

This brings me to what I consider to be the most deplorable, most shameful tactic of the political right (the left use it too, in different areas, but that's another blog): The use of emotionally charged issues to blindside voters to the real issues.

In short, voters who go to the polls to vote for these marriage amendments will largely ignore that the party of their choosing has a woefully inadequate welfare reform system that it does not even address. When the welfare reform bills were proposed, nobody considered that they would be, not only pulling out the safety nets, but replacing them with sharp tipped spikes. They will further ignore an educational initiative that's failing consistently to meet the goals set for it when it was adopted ("No Child Left Behind"), and they will also continue to ignore a conflict that has dragged on with American casualties for about five months since "victory" was declared, and for which the president has no clearly defined exit strategy.

Only the latter issue receives any attention at all, and even it is buried in the rush to either ban or gain approval for same sex marriages. The welfare reform system has received virtually no attention from the liberal elements of the media, and NCLB is brushed on as a system in need of minor changes, not in a system that is failing to provide the educational improvements proposed when it was passed into legislation.

If anyone should be faulted here, though, my contention is that it is the left. They are too easily distracted with side issues (it was abortion until that hand played out), and drop the important components of their platform for expediency in these red herring legislation.

The fact is, a gay marriage ban isn't going to stop homosexual behavior. And recognition of gay marriage isn't going to influence someone who is not already influenced. Bill can marry Bob if he wants to, but in all likelihood, I won't be inviting them to my pool party. And I highly doubt PFLAG is going to call on me to be their keynote speaker anytime within the next few months. But you know what? I'm ok with that, and I don't see why they shouldn't be. You shouldn't need my approval to be a couple, nor should I feel compelled to GIVE you that approval (as for the legal rights that homosexuals SHOULD have as a couple--I'm all for that. Hand me the petition and show me where to sign).

So, why don't we stop tracking these stupid red herrings and get to the issues that really matter.

signing off,

Gideon MacLeish

Comments
on Sep 18, 2004
Random Jon Stewart quote from his 1994's Unleavened special:

"And Pat Buchanan: 'Gay people are ruining the country!' Of course they are, Pat! I mean, how can you possibly concentrate on the problems of the country with the constant sound of buttfucking in your ears? It must be very hard! How can you focus on tax rebates and reforms with the constant sound of one man's balls slapping against another man's ass?"
on Sep 18, 2004
I agree wholeheartedly, Gideon. Trying to legislate morality is a scary, scary thing, and further it keeps us from looking at the things that are truly of consequence. Excellent post.

history:
I mean, how can you possibly concentrate on the problems of the country with the constant sound of buttfucking in your ears?


on Sep 19, 2004
Gideon it always fascinates me how anything to do with Gay brings up such emotion.. it's like people are disgusted but wanna know about it anyway, hide behind their hands but keep a slit open so they can still see. I love what History posted here excellent article Gideon.. same thing is happening here in Oz.
on Sep 19, 2004
"And Pat Buchanan: 'Gay people are ruining the country!' Of course they are, Pat! I mean, how can you possibly concentrate on the problems of the country with the constant sound of buttfucking in your ears? It must be very hard! How can you focus on tax rebates and reforms with the constant sound of one man's balls slapping against another man's ass?"


Yup...it calls to mind the congressional page scandal of the late '80's, which resulted in my favorite disgusting joke of all time:

"Why don't US Congressmen use bookmarks? Because they LIKE their pages bent over".

hehehe
on Sep 19, 2004
Only if the page is hot, mind you.

on Sep 22, 2004
Kerry doesn't support gay rights as much as i would want him to. Obviously, he doesn't support the constitutional ammendment to ban same-sex marriages, but he still opposes the idea of anything more than a civil union. He's better than Bush on the area, but not significantly.
on Sep 22, 2004
I could plug my blog here, but that's so tacky. Oh well, but I sorta just did.

Part of the problem with gay marriage is that since the Supreme Court officially decriminalized homosexuality (by overturning sodomy laws), they basically opened the door to gay marriage. Most states don't have anything in their laws that identify a marriage as between a man and a woman. The preservation of marriage as a heterosexual institution was based in part and implicitly on homosexuality being illegal. Now that it isn't, states must rush to make that little clarification in their constitutions. And some are going WAY beyond that (e.g. Virginia and Louisiana).

When some cities decided not to wait for their state governments to weigh in on whether civil union or gay marriage would be legal, they did so because of the fundamental nature of US law. Namely, if it aint legislated against, you're free to do it. (This is the same reason why California had to recently make necrophelia a specific crime. Ewww!) Some so-called "radical" judges and city officials took advantage of this aspect of US law to rule that, under the current law, their states had to recognize gay marriages. Simply put, there was no law against gay relationships and no legally clear statement that marriage is only for straights. Legally, this was quite sound. Politically, it was probably foolish. I can't help it, though. I love 'em for trying. *sigh* And now comes the backlash.

But your point is well made, Gideon. This issue is near and dear to my everyday life experience; it is not just a "wedge issue" for me. But I see that it is a wedge issue for this election. And it is not what we should probably be focusing on. I agree that Kerry doesn't do as much for gays as I'd like. To his credit, though, the DNC did its best not to engage this particular wedge issue. I was damn proud of the GLBT delegates who did not protest (too much) when their presence was downplayed at the convention, when gay issues were barely mentioned in the platform speeches. I also swallow bile to praise the Log Cabin Republicans for not endorsing President Bush. The great diversity of queerdom knows, I guess, which candidate is the lesser of two evils on these issues. Best that the debates be about other issues and not let President Bush play the righteous homophobe card too much.

For those of you in states with such "defense of marriage" ammendments up for a vote: If you vote for this, you are not defending marriage; however, you are voting to re-criminalize homosexuality. At the very least, you are legally making GLBT folks second class citizens. At the risk of sliding down the proverbial slippery slope, you are but a few steps away from legally mandating ghettoization of gays and/or forced "re-education." And maybe that's just okay with you. If it is, fine; wear your homophobia and moral superiority with pride. But if you find that distasteful, then think seriously about what it means to "defend marriage" from GLBTs.
on Sep 22, 2004
Bush and Gore healing the partisan divide.