I detest abortion. I think it is a disgusting practice, and I think it is a damning indictment on our society that we accept it as casually as we do.
But I do not believe it should be made illegal. I believe there are better solutions.
See, according to the data I have read, there are situations where an abortion may serve a medical purpose. According to what I have read, these instances comprise the minority of cases, but I do not feel when these cases exist that a doctor should have to consult an army of lawyers to prove that the procedure was, indeed, medically necessary. And while it is my opinion that many of our doctors have questionable educational philosophies that have directed their education, I nonetheless am more than willing to defer the expertise to these men, who are more knowledgeable in the area of medicine than I. After all, one can always seek a second opinion if they don't agree with a doctor, and doctors themselves will readily admit to not being infallible (well, MOST of them will anyway!)
What I oppose is the public funding of elective abortions. As I have said before, if NARAL wants abortions, let them hold a bake sale. Don't do it on the public dime.
I have not once, but six times, experienced the joy of fatherhood. Of watching the progression of pregnancy. Of seeing photos long before a fetus is viable of a well formed child, a child that deserves a chance. I reject the notion that as a man, I have no right to an opinion. Morals are not gender specific, they are pretty solid, and they don't "change with the times". Right is right, and wrong is wrong. And abortion is always wrong. The only question is, does it prevent a greater wrong (ie, the death of the mother), which would make its presence, while distasteful, at least acceptable.
I also reject that ANYONE can say they think abortion is wrong and argue vehemently for abortion on demand. If you believe something is wrong and you endorse it, you are WORSE than those who believe it is right and do it. You are the ultimate of hypocrites, because your actions are inconsistent with your words.
I don't subscribe to the ideals of most groups who label themselves "pro-life" (because, in my experience anyway, they aren't). I don't protest, don't hold up signs, don't label women who've had abortions. But I feel very strongly and very decisively that abortion is wrong, and that it is my moral obligation to speak out against perceived wrongs. And it is only with the greatest reluctance that I concede it should probably remain legal.
And that one issue, ironically, is what excludes me from the "party of tolerance" they call the Democrats. Ironic, isn't it?