The journey from there to here
Know When to Walk Away
Published on February 23, 2007 By Gideon MacLeish In Misc

Sometimes being right isn't enough.

My trial before the municipal judge is scheduled for Wednesday morning. But there's not going to be a trial.

There's not going to be one because I give up. I have an offer sitting on my desk that's disgusting. It's insulting. But it's better than the worst case scenario, and I'm not willing to gamble a fair sum of my family's money on the off chance we might actually have a chance to present our case.

I'm not a lawyer. My opponent is. I've probably already argued as good a deal as I'm going to get if found guilty.

Unless something DRASTICALLY changes between now and Monday morning, we will take the deal, cut our losses and go.

It will also be the beginning of the end of our time in Lefors. For the past year and a half, the community (certain individuals notably excluded) has sent the message loud and clear that we are NOT welcome here. And it's time we heed the message before things get worse (as they certainly can).

I bear them no ill will. It's their town, after all, and I was an unwelcome guest. I should have lived by their rules, and maybe I would have gotten along better.

I hoped beyond hope that someone would listen to our story and help us, but noone did. The Constitution definitely DOES end at the city limits, and in this day and age one still can get run out of town for trying to help persons of minority in a time of need.

To R&T: I will be staying through the end of March, and I'll catch up on back house payments (as well as try to knock out a couple of repairs). I'll call the landlord on Monday to let him know of our decision so that he can try to rent the place out. I really didn't want it to end like this, but sometimes we have no choice in the matter.

We won't be going far, just 15 miles up the road. After all, life has gone good for us there, and I wouldn't even think of leaving behind what we've built here.

But I can't stay in Lefors. It's time to know when enough's enough.

And it will be a long time before these size 13's cross the threshhold of any church with the word "Baptist" in their name.


Comments
on Feb 23, 2007
I'm sorry to see you give up. At the same time, I don't want you to get that worst case scenario, which undoubtably would have happened.

Have fun in your new town. But don't let one Baptist church give them all a bad name... they can take care of that themselves.
on Feb 23, 2007

Good luck Gid.

 

on Feb 23, 2007
But don't let one Baptist church give them all a bad name... they can take care of that themselves.


Nope...I've let five or six of them form the stereotype

I hate to say it, but I can't think of ONE Baptist church where I'v e had a long relationship with that denomination and it has turned out well.
on Feb 24, 2007
Non-denominational is working for me. But we have a really good pastor, which is what any church truly needs to even have a chance.
on Feb 25, 2007
Well, we'll probably have to stick around town longer than we had hoped...I'm not leaving N. Texas without a degree -- it's taken me long enough to get back on track as it is. As for church, I don't know...we may yet start home fellowships...but in the next decent sized town, NOT here.