I had to swipe the line from a favorite Johnny Cash song to address this subject. As most of you know, I'm not a biggie on religious blogs, but as you also know, I'm a big mouth, so I have to speak my mind from time to time.
I see the debate crop up on various articles about religion as to how we are to act as Christians. What puzzles me is why there's any debate at all, frankly. God gave us a standard, and we are called to obedience. While that obedience does not save us, the effort to become the person God wants us to be should be the hallmark of a believer. While we should not let the guilt from our sins crush us, we should always let the awareness of our sin move us towards behaving more and more in a manner that is acceptable to God. In other words, if we know that it is wrong, we shouldn't do it again.
What puzzles me is why anyone would WANT to do it again. Sure, we are imperfect, sure we sin, but the fact that anyone would desire to do something that they know to be contrary to God's will is indicative to me that their heart might not be in the right place.
In my human relationships, having love for someone means that I act sensitively towards that other person in my relationship towards them. I would never intentionally do something, for instance, that I know would cause my wife or children grief. Loving them means placing consideration for their feelings above mine.
How much more so, then, should I place God's feelings above mine if I claim to love him? Sure, I have liberty to act any way I please, but if I desire that relationship, if I desire that closeness, it seems I would want to act in a way that would nurture that relationship and bring me closer.
As I get older, and hopefully a little bit wiser, I'm perplexed by those Christians who would continually WANT to sin. Virtually every sin carries with it earthly consequences, as well as heavenly consequences, and there are few sins one can commit where they can honestly claim they did not suffer harm. My desire should be to invest my time and energy in things that have lasting importance, not in things that feed only my present desire with no thought of the future.
So, why, then, do Christians try to weigh sin and decide which ones are acceptable or not acceptable before God? Here's a hint: if it's a sin, it's NOT acceptable before God. Period. While God is a loving and forgiving God, it is the height of folly to test the limits of His grace.