The journey from there to here

Barry Bonds is on the tail end of a career that will quite likely see him enshrined in the Hall of Fame. While Bonds is a great athlete, he became so with the help of steroids, and passed many people who worked hard to get up the homerun list without chemical enhancement. While there are a number of fans who feel Bonds should not be in the Hall, the number of fans who are cheering him on to the record regardless seem to be shouting louder.

Kavvya Viswanathan, a Harvard undergraduate, is a newly discovered plagiarist. Though she protests her book wasn't intentionally plagiarized, there are significant lifts from a number of sources that have been found in her published material. Because she is a discovered plagiarist, this should cast doubt in the minds of anyone in the academic community about the originality of her work in high school, work that composed part of the portfolio that would have been used for her consideration to this prestigious institute of higher learning. While there are a few voices stating that she should be expelled from Harvard, the voices arguing against it are FAR more pervasive, in one case to compare her expulsion from an institution of higher learning that VOLUNTARILY enrolled her with the incarceration behind bars for life of a convicted felon (believe me, I've been behind bars...being kicked out of ONE college doesn't compare).

All of this causes me to wonder: why am I teaching my children not to cheat? As our standards of right and wrong begin to deteriorate, it would seem to m that if I am raising up honest kids to compete as adults in a world where others are NOT honest, I am not fairly equipping them for the world. If my children submit honest resumes to an HR department with an inbox full of those who are falsified and who feel they will simply apologize AFTER the fact, what chance do they have? Sure, they'll have the knowledge that they are being principled by being honest, but principle, for all its value, doesn't pay the rent.

We need to be concerned about those who would take shortcuts to success. While we may feel a need to pity them, if we reward them for cheating, we are sending the wrong message to those who try hard not to cheat. Rules, as they say, are rules, but we are living in a society that increasingly believes rules, like records, were meant to be broken.

To answer my own question, I am teaching my children not to cheat because it's a standard I believe in and try to follow. I am finding it increasingly likely, thought, that they will be strongly tempted to reject those values as they grow older and see the successes of those who do not. I think we need to take a long hard look at cheaters and refuse to honor them as our nation's best and brightest. Because if we don't take a hard stance against them, what are we telling those who would follow behind?


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on May 08, 2006

However, banning her from completing her education would be wrong.

Once again, they're NOT banning her from completing her education! Your argument (and mod's and dr guy's) centers on the premise that unless she gets an education from Harvard, the degree is worthless! Ivy League education is NOT a right, and they are EXPECTED to hold VERY high standards for their students. Hypothetically, at least, those students are meant to be the best of the best. My Bonds analogy is apt because both are instances where their selection among the "best of the best" is suspect to say the least.

Noone is suggesting barring this young lady from pursuing an education ever again. I am advocating that Harvard needs to expel her, because it's quite possible she cheated to get there.

on May 08, 2006
#13 by ParaTed2k
Sunday, May 07, 2006


MM
not if her future work is ORIGINAL and she can proove it.

Lets face it I am willing to give second chances because NO ONE GAVE ME ONE! I had to take my second chance by force { do not ask as I will not tell}


Ok, if it was you who had to tell the world that her next projects were original. It was your name backing her up, and you would be held responsible for it... would you stand behind your "give her a second chance at writing" attitude?


ted, as someone in recovery, I have more than a few sponcees and yes have co-signed for them, I am a strong believer in second chances for the redeemable.
on May 09, 2006
What you've described is so true and very bothersome, and when faced with someone cheating, I can become pretty darn ugly. Regardless, I am teaching my son to value doing what's right, knowing good from bad and how healthy judgment factors in.
on May 09, 2006
lol

why have kids to worry about in the first place? your parents screwed you up (you have to admit they could have done better) so you can't possibly expect to do a good job...35 years from now, they'll be writing about how much you screwed them up, teaching them not to cheat lol
on May 09, 2006
If she's still a small child, then take away her driver's license and her credit cards. Prohibit her from smoking, drinking, and voting. Void all her contracts and don't let her sign new ones.

These are all privileges that our society reserves for responsible adults who are mature enough to chart their own course in life and accept responsibility for the consequences of their actions.
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