The journey from there to here
Published on March 4, 2006 By Gideon MacLeish In Blogging

OK, this will be my final word on "the subject". I'll move on from here. But there's one thing more that needs to be said, and it needs to be said in front of all of you.

First of all, this is not an apology. I don't feel I have anything to apologize for. Nor do I feel Sabrina or Simon have anything to apologize for. We said what we said, and we are who we are. What resulted from the recent conflict was simply a byproduct of who Sabrina is, and she should be proud of that, at least. During her time here, she was always a polarizing figure, and she always will be that person, just somewhere else. The reaction to her leaving was no exception. Sabrina brought out the best of us and the worst of us at the same time, and the results were sometimes amusing, sometimes alarming. She was who she was, and in being so, taught a lot of us to be who we are without apology. There's too little of that in the world.

I disagree with a lot of what she said. And I probably won't change in that regard. But that doesn't change my appreciation and respect for who she is. It's always tumultuous when someone moves on, but we'll get over it. We always have and always will.

But in all of this conflict, I forgot my manners. I forgot to say goodbye, and that is, perhaps, all that needed to be said.

Goodbye, Sabrina. We WILL miss you!


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on Mar 05, 2006
Marcie...you call yourself a Christian?

I'm thinking there's not enough evidence to convict you of this right here.

I think the Doxology was way out of line.


Ummmmm....and you think it's Christian to do this?
on Mar 05, 2006
Out of respect for Gid I am done here.
on Mar 05, 2006
To summarize, Marcie made some allegations, those allegations were responded to and Marcie never addressed the response. But she did manage to attribute to me things other people say.
on Mar 05, 2006
Ummm...what Jill said. I was done with this yesterday because a) like Jill said, this isn't the place, and it's over and done with and its time to move on with life.

I hope you're big enough to do the same, Brad.
on Mar 05, 2006
Marcie, the longer you know me the more you'll understand that I'm a small...petty man.
on Mar 06, 2006
My dear gawd.....this is ridiculous. Marcie, that doxology was totally uncalled for. Nobody's trying to hurt you here - but you're doing an awfully good job of hurting yourself.

Please don't tell me that I 'dont have to read' what you're saying or give me a 'whatever' response. I'm trying to help you out a bit because I think you've got yourself tied up in all kinds of knots.

Take a step back, a deep breath, and calm down a bit. Please.
on Mar 06, 2006

Out of respect for Gid I am done here.

Thanks, Jill. I'm not going to delete the comments, but I'm going to ask that anyone who wants to "pile on" do so elsewhere. This was written as my goodbye to Sabrina, a goodbye that I felt was necessary for someone I had come to appreciate so much. If others want to add their goodbyes, they should feel free to do so, but the battle over who was right and who was wrong has gone on too long.

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